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August
Update
August 21, 2008
I am happy to report to you that July was my best month since
the accident last November! Finally, I can actually see some
real progress in my speech, as my speech therapist and chiropractor
have been working hard to get me back to where I can speak fluently
again after my head trauma episode from the accident. Between
the prayers from my friends, speech therapy, special cranial
treatments, determination and faith, I am finally seeing light
at the end of the tunnel!
For the first time, I have been
at near 100% fluency for almost an entire month! I only have
small spurts here and there where my speech goes south, but
I am able to recover quickly, which is something I have never
been able to do before! I have so well, in fact, that my last
meeting with my speech therapist was Tuesday Aug 12th!
The Tourettes noises are a bit
better, as the medicines might be starting to take effect. They
told me from the beginning that it might take up to 2 months
to see any changes. The important thing is that I have showed
no major side effects from the medication. That’s a huge
deal for me, as I do not take medicines well! So God is with
me, strengthening me every day, and getting me better. I am
very grateful! It’s nice to be able to give a good report
after all these months!
I
Passed a Big Test!
OK, are you ready for this? For the first time in 9 months,
I actually performed on Sunday August 10th!! My own church allowed
me to try out some songs for our children, just to see if I
could hold up. My two Praise Team Members, Laura Anne and Hannah
Lee, were here with me the entire week and performed with me
Sunday.. My main goal was to just use this experience as a gage
to see where I was at, and whether or not I even had a chance
of making steps toward a comeback this fall.
I am happy to report to you that
my body held up just fine! I didn’t stutter, make those
awful noises, scare any kids, fall apart or collapse, have any
relapses – all those things I feared might happen in the
back of my mind, because they happened with less stress before.
It was also a test of endurance. And even though I got tired,
I was able, by God’s strength, to pass my very first test
back on the stage! I am so happy I can hardly contain it! God
is going to give me my dream back!
So it’s obvious that God
isn’t through with me yet! In fact, I think He wants to
use me in deeper ways! Praise God for His goodness!
Perspective
To read my full report and read my insights from the “perspective”
part of my letters, click below. In each letter I try to encourage
my readers so that they can experience God’s greatness
through their trials and struggles.
August Newsletter
July Newsletter
June Newsletter
May Newsletter
April Newsletter
Cya here, there, or in the air!
Uncle Charlie
July
Update
July 19, 2008
Quick
Review
If you are new to these updates, I have been trying to keep
my friends, fans, customers and readers updated on my condition
as I try to recover from a near fatal, high speed, head on collision
I was involved in while on tour in November of 2007. The journey
has had it’s ups and downs, but through it all God has
been steady and faithful to provide our needs and to teach me
valuable lessons.
If you are unfamiliar with my story, you can click on the top
link to read about the accident and see pictures. Then you can
scan the monthly updates to see how I have progressed. I include
links to my monthly newsletters that go into more detail on
my progress and how I deal with my feelings, good and bad. I
try to encourage my readers, knowing that we all read to “know
we’re not alone” in our struggles. My prayer is
that God will use my words to encourage you or someone you know
who is going through tough periods of time of any kind.
Progress This Past Month
Well, the last month had a 2-3 week stretch where I made significant
improvement on my speech. My speech therapist and my nerve doctor
have been helping me concentrate specifically on gaining control
over my stuttering, and I made some great strides! A month ago
I was only about 25% fluent at best. Each week got better until
I was nearly at 100% fluency (no stuttering at all) for about
2 weeks! I literally had to re-train myself how to talk. It
was extremely hard and exhausting, but great progress was made
for the longest stretch of time yet!!
The Tourettes-like sounds have worsened, however. I can make
some really loud noises at the most inopportune times! That
can actually work to my advantage if I am standing in a long
line at the store….…..all I have to do is start
making those noises and the line clears out in a hurry! Haha!
But Then Another Setback
We visited the Tourettes Doctor for the first time in Gainesville,
FL on Monday the 14th. I had a serious setback during that visit
that blindsided me again. I was 100% fluent going in to that
meeting, and as soon as I began speaking, everything came back
with a vengeance. The stuttering, repeating words, memory loss,
loud noises, body spasms, jerking – all of it. I could
not control myself at all, and I was unable to gather myself
long enough to practice anything I had been taught in therapy.
It took the next 4 days to get my speech back to par, and I
still have residual effects from that day. So it’s obvious
that in non stressful situations I am making improvement, but
in stressful situations I am nowhere close. They have me on
new medicine they use for Tourettes patients, which they are
hopeful will reduce everything I am experiencing. If we can
get through a few weeks without the side effects, then I can
try stressful situations again. If I do well for 2 months, then
I can start thinking about touring again. But we still have
a lot of questions to answer and tests top pass before I get
any green lights.
Do You Ever Get Discouraged?
Don’t we all face discouraging moments? No matter who
we are, what we do, or how close to the Lord we are - none of
us are immune from difficulties, struggles, disappointments,
or setbacks. It’s part of life and they can come in any
form or at any time – (usually when we think we least
need it!) Haha!
But I am learning through this ordeal in my life that discouragements
test the inner core of who we are. How do we handle things that
go wrong? For me, my initial reaction isn’t always the
one that pleases God the most. I usually blow it first, then
learn from it, then do better the next time. Don’t you
think that’s true with most of us?
That’s why I have begun to attach my monthly newsletters
for you – so that you can see my heart through the uncertainties
and chaotic times of my life. I try to be honest and transparent
so you can see that I am really no different than any of you.
We are all on this journey called “life “ together.
I hope that as I share my feelings and what I am learning, that
you will be encouraged – that you will be ministered to
– that you will not feel alone in your battles –
that you can use my letters to bless or encourage someone else
in need. My desire is for God to use me in and through my weaknesses.
So having said that, my July Newsletter link is below. If you
didn’t get a chance to read my previos three newsletters,
they are below July’s. Just click and print, then read
and be blessed!
July Newsletter
June Newsletter
May Newsletter
April Newsletter
Until next time, take
care and I’ll Cya here, there, or in the air!
Uncle Charlie
June
Update
June 26, 2008
Quick Review
Well, friends, welcome to the “Chronicles of Charnia”!
in case you are new to these updates, I have been trying to
keep my friends and fans around the country posted on my progress
since my near fatal accident in November. To get the full story
on that, you’ll need to click on the top link “Click
to read a summary about Uncle Charlie’s accident”.
You’ll get details and can view pictures that will reveal
what a miracle it is that I am even here today. Each month since
November I have tried to give you updates on my progress and
how I have been coping.
What We’ve Overcome
We are at a point now where thanks to God’s goodness and
awesome power, I have been able to overcome a lot of things
physically! We’ve come a long way from surviving 14 broken
ribs, a broken sternum, three fractures in my right foot, multiple
fractures in my right wrist, two wrist surgeries to repair structural
and nerve damage, lacerated liver and spleen, and internal injuries!
It’s good to be away from those hospital days, painful
rehab days and wheelchair days!
Current Battle
The struggle we face now is something that didn’t manifest
itself until late February. I had delayed post traumatic neurological
issues as a result of head trauma and possibly other factors.
Those neurological issues have caused problems with my motor
and speech skills. Some of it has improved with time and medication,
but others have not. The issues were a major set for me during
my recovery and have kept me from touring again at least through
the summer.
Most Recent Diagnosis
The specialists I have seen in Gainesville, FL have definitely
determined that one of the things I am dealing with is called
“Post Traumatic Tourettism”. That is just like Tourettes
Syndrome, a Tic Disorder which causes motor and speech disfluency.
My symptoms include stuttering, repeating words and phrases,
breathing irregularities, uttering sudden uncontrollable noises,
concentration and memory problems, and body spasms. The only
difference in Tourettism and Tourettes is that Tourettism can
be caused by head trauma to certain parts of the brain. This
is the case with me. But there may be other drug related factors
that go back to my first days in ICU in Oklahoma that have complicated
this problem. I get in to see a Tourettes Specialist at the
hospital in Gainesville in mid July. They say I am a very rare
case because of the timing and the possible other factors, which
they need to explore further. My prognosis is uncertain until
they get some more answers. This may be treatable in time, or
it may be something I will carry with me the rest of my life
and have to learn to deal with. Either way, I am confident that
God has a plan for me sticking around! I’m already a miracle,
so I don’t intend on wasting my “second chance”
opportunity!
My Encouragement to You
I have purposed myself to use this chaotic time in my life for
good. I have gotten tons of positive feedback from folks who
have read my updates and especially my more detailed monthly
newsletters! So I continue to write, to share my feelings, my
struggles, my ups and downs of the healing process. I do that
in order to help folks who are struggling and trying to overcome
their own giants in life. Of course I hope that someday I will
be back on stage, but in the mean time, this is my stage. You
are my audience. If I have anything that I can share from my
heart to yours that will help or encourage or minister to you,
then that’s what I’m all about!
I just finished my June Newsletter and want to make it available
to you on the link below. I also included my last two newsletters.
In them, I not only go in to more detail on my condition, but
I have sections that explain my true heart – how I am
trying to handle everything – how I feel from time to
time and how I try to deal with those feelings. It’s honest
and straight from the heart. I hope something I said in June’s
edition, or the other two for that matter, turns out to be something
the Lord can use for any of you who “read to know you
are not alone” in your battles! Feel free to print these
off and use them for anybody you think could use them! Here’s
the links:
June
Newsletter
May Newsletter
April Newsletter
Thank you!
I want all of you to know how much your prayers have meant to
Tammy and myself since November! Of all the things that have
made a difference for us, prayer is the most powerful of them
all. And again my thanks to all of you who have emailed or written
me personally, or have had your children’s groups make
cards and notes! I put those in my “treasure box”
and don’t intend on ever getting rid of them!
Please don’t stop praying for us. There’s still
a lot of uncertainty ahead. And feel free to email me just to
say hi or to let me know if and how any of my newsletters may
be helping you! In the mean time, I’ll keep striving to
make Made 2 Praise music for you and your groups until I can
tour again.
God Bless you all, and we’ll see ya here, there, or in
the air!
Uncle Charlie
Sidelined
for the Summer
May 6, 2008
April was pretty much dominated with
neurological episodes, doctors appointments, therapy, counseling
and treatments. The symptoms simply have not gone away. I’ve
had over 30 appointments over the past 4 weeks with my primary
physician, throat specialist, speech therapist, physical therapists,
neurologist, chiropractor, psychiatrist, psychologists, counselor,
and orthopedic doctor. All of my doctors and therapists have
been very helpful and thorough, but we still haven’t gotten
to the bottom of things yet. I still stutter, utter noises,
have inconsistent breathing patterns, jerking, twitching, and
body spasms. Sometimes these episodes can get extremely intense
and violent in nature.
To make matters even more fun, I have also been exhibiting symptoms
which doctors say are consistent with head trauma.
* Short term memory loss
* Inability to concentrate
* Inability to find words as I speak
* Inability to actually articulate what I know I want to say
– can’t get the words out at all
* Totally forgetting my next thought as I speak, sometimes leading
to total silence
* Not being able to process thoughts in order to make decisions
or handle stressful situations
I just recently underwent a 10 hour, extensive and intense cognitive
evaluation in Gainesville, FL to determine the extent and treatment
of the head trauma issues related to the accident. Hopefully
once those results are in we can start making real progress
with treatment.
The bad news is all of this pretty much nullified any chance
of me being able to go back on the road this summer to minister
through camps and events, so I had to make another difficult
and painful decision to cancel all of my summer events.
Though I certainly do not understand what is going on, and why
God seems to be holding me back from doing what I really love
to do, I trust Him. I find comfort in His promises. I trust
that He is in control of my affairs. I trust that He is working
in me, through me, and for me. I trust in the Romans 8:28 principle
that for God’s children, things don’t happen “to
us”, but “for us”.
God’s promises are not there just to pacify us when we
are feeling low. They are there to claim as our own as we seek
Him and His will for our lives as we give Him the desires of
our hearts. Those promises are there to work for us on our behalf.
Everything under God’s hand has a purpose. There are no
accidents in His agenda for us. His ways are far higher than
our ways. And we can rest assured that He sees the bigger picture
while all we see at times is what is right in front of us. Yes,
we can really trust Him. So as tempting as it is for me to keep
asking “Why, Lord?”, I am learning to instead ask,
“Lord, What higher purpose do You have for me in this?”
That brings me to my final thought. I have come to realize that
God’s ministry through me is not just limited to the audience
that I connect with from the stage. Maybe for now He wants to
use me in a different way, and for a different audience - those
who read my updates. Someone once said “We read to know
we are not alone”. How true! Maybe God can use my openness
and vulnerability in my struggles to find meaning and purpose
during a time in my life that is very confusing and frustrating,
even as it happens.
Odds are that some of my readers are dealing with their own
giants and sometimes feel alone or overwhelmed. If that is you,
then be encouraged! The same God who promises me victory promises
you victory as well! If you want to know more of my heart, click
this link and feel free to print off my April edition
of my monthly newsletter. I express myself in a little more
detail in my newsletters, and hopefully you will find encouragement
and some nuggets of truth you can hold on to as you deal with
giants in your life!
Keep me in your prayers, and if you feel like dropping me a
line, please feel free to do so! I love hearing from you! God
bless you all!
Cya here, there, or in
the air!
We’re Upward Bound!
Uncle Charlie
Setbacks
in March
April 1, 2008
Well friends, I was hoping I didn’t need to update you
anymore, but simply put, March was not one of my better months
in my recovery process. I developed neurological issues and
have spent the entire month visiting different doctors, getting
MRI’s and Cat Scans, getting different treatments, and
fighting ongoing symptoms. Things were coming along great with
therapy and general healing, but then things took a sudden turn,
and I think I gave new meaning to the term “March Madness”!
Neurological symptoms I have been dealing with are: Severe stuttering,
repeating phrases frequently, fast breathing, heavy breathing,
body spasms, twitching, uttering noises, trembling, shaking,
short term memory loss, loss of concentration, tensing up, throat
closing. (Sounds like a lot of fun, huh? Haha!)
My Doctor and Neurologist are saying they think it is a combination
of PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) and Panic Disorder.
They are also checking in to other possibilities, but that’s
what it looks like right now. Apparently even though I have
no memory of the accident before waking up during the rescue,
my subconscious mind does. The theory is now that other physical
symptoms are coming along in the healing process, the subconscious
issues are kicking in. That’s what seems to be causing
these violent neurological reactions. I am told that some of
it is pain related and some is psychological in nature. I have
no control over it. It can come on at any time, but it mostly
comes when I get physically tired for any reason or it I try
to talk at any length. The best way I can describe it is that
it’s a fierce, intense battle on the inside just to try
to function normally on the outside.
The stuttering and breathing issues got so bad that I had to
cut myself off from talking to anybody but Tammy at home. I
haven’t been able to carry on conversations, and it’s
been extremely difficult to concentrate so as to get work done
or make decisions. It has been very embarrassing publically,
very exhausting just to function and overall frustrating.
This is a setback we didn’t see coming, as I was working
toward being ready for summer camps after already having to
cancel Easter and Spring events. The good news is that during
the past week the episodes diminished somewhat in frequency.
I still have my good days and bad days, and it’s still
around, but at least not every day, 24/7 like it has been.
I still have many follow up appointments and test results in
the next few weeks. I am hopeful and prayerful that most of
this can get behind me quickly and that I can once again begin
concentrating on ministering to kids this summer! Just pray
that if it’s God’s will to use me for summer camps
and events, that He will get me over this part of my recovery
and return my strength, stamina, and sanity! Haha!
I still am determined to do my part to be ready, and will trust
God for the results. He’s already helped me come so far
in such a short time! So as frustrating as this past month has
been, I still know God has been working. The same God who has
healed me to this point is the same God who allowed this setback.
He’s got a reason. So even though it’s been a struggle
lately, and I still have these and other physical issues to
deal with, I know God’s got a plan, and it’s all
in His hands!
Keep praying! God Bless you all, and I’ll Cya here, there,
or in the air!
Uncle Charlie
Update
on Uncle Charlie’s Progress
February 16, 2008
Hey Friends and Fans!
I am happy to report to you that recovery and rehab are still
going well! We’ve made a lot of progress even since my
last update! Here’s a list of things that have taken place
since last month and where I am at right now.
1. My leg cast came off the last week in January. After rehab,
I am now able to walk on my own and drive on my own! No more
wheel chairs and no more walkers! Yea!! I still do therapy on
the foot to regain my strength. It will be a bit longer before
I can walk without pain and swelling, but at least I am walking!
2. My arm cast came off the first week in February, followed
by surgery to remove the pins that were stabilizing my wrist.
I have been in rehab for two weeks with the wrist. It sustained
pretty severe damage and will take at least 8 weeks of therapy
to get it where we need it, but so far everything is coming
along. I already have a bit more flexibility, rotation and strength
in the wrist! I can hold a guitar pic, which is vital! ?
3. I wasn’t really supposed to, but I took a chance and
recorded Made 2 Praise 10 several weeks ago so I wouldn’t
fall too far behind! My producer and I were both amazed how
God allowed me to sing 7 songs only 8 weeks after nearly losing
my life! I got to hear the proof just yesterday, and have to
admit I shed a few tears as it hit me what a magnificent miracle
this was! So when you hear the songs from M2P 10, you can remember
I had 14 broken ribs, other broken bones and was on a lot of
pain medicine! Haha! It’s a wonder what we can accomplish
when we’re half-looped! Haha! ? Seriously, praise God
for that victory!
4. The 14 broken ribs and broken sternum have healed enough
to where I can finally get some regular treatments from my chiropractor.
He had to wait 12 weeks to give proper time for the ribs to
heal. I have many, many skeletal issues, but at least now we
can begin to tend to them!
As you can see, great things have taken place! It’s such
a miracle I have come this far in such a short time! Having
said that, I still have the rest of the spring to go before
I am where they want me to me in order to be able to perform
again. I am still dealing with internal issues, brain trauma,
major loss of stamina and energy, and of course all the therapy
that needs to take place. As a result, I had to let go of a
three day tour we had previously scheduled in Georgia on Easter
weekend. That was my goal, to be able to make that tour. But
we just had to reset our goals to be a bit more realistic and
reachable. Our new goal is to be back touring by mid-May. God
willing, we will be back at full strength before summer and
will be ready to go full guns for camps! Can’t wait!!
Just so you can see exactly what the Lord delivered me from,
I have attached the following link that will take you to the
pictures that the Highway Patrol sent to me of the aftermath
of the accident. You won’t believe, as I didn’t,
that I could come out of there alive! It really brings home
the magnitude of this miracle! (I omitted pictures that were
a little too graphic in case children see these). I was in the
larger SUV, the Chevy Trailblazer. Both cars were doing 65mph
at impact. No brakes and no skid marks. No one knows the reason
why they suddenly got into my lane and hit me head on. I never
saw it happen, but God did, and He protected me for sure! Here’s
the link: http://picasaweb.google.com/ubministries/CharlieSAccidentViewerVersion.
I show you these pictures so you can rejoice with me that we
serve an AWESOME God, Who only by His grace and His miraculous
power got me out of there alive! Not only is it a miracle that
I am breathing, but it’s another miracle that I am healing
so quickly! I guess God must have a little more for Uncle Charlie
to do before it’s my time! God is good, and His power
is awesome!
I hope this last update encourages you, my friends! As long
as I continue to improve there will be no need for me to have
these sent any longer. We can hopefully begin to go back to
my regular ministry updates next month!
Be encouraged that God’s
power is incredible! I am living proof!
Be encouraged that He does answer prayer! I am living proof!
Be encouraged that your prayers, emails, cards, letters, and
concern do make a difference! My rapid recovery is living proof!
Thank you, all of you!
My word of encouragement to you is to always do your best to
keep an excellent attitude, no matter what comes your way. Next
to the power of prayer and the encouragement I got from folks
like you, I really do believe that keeping a positive spirit
contributed to me getting to where I currently am so quickly.
Not only is it good physical and emotional therapy, but it is
a tremendous witness to those around you! Psalm 126:2 reads:
“Then our mouth was filled with laughter. And our tongue
with singing. Then they said among the nations, ‘The Lord
has done great things for them’”. That’s what
I hope I was able to bring to the table through this crisis
– that I was so full of joy and gratitude for just being
alive that it was contagious! I want people to be able to look
at my life through good and bad and say “The Lord has
done great things for that guy”! I pray the same holds
true for you in the good times and the not so good times in
your lives!
Can’t wait to be back on the road in mid-May! If you are
looking for a kids or family event that will be uplifting, energetic,
joyous, and that will point the way to Jesus, then we are ready
to help! My tour coordinator, Sharon Cox at For His Kidz, will
be happy to work with you to set that up, so give her a call!
1-866-774-7469 or e-mail
her.
Take care, God bless, and we’ll Cya here, there, or in
the air!
Uncle Charlie
Aka: (M&M…..miracle man!)
Update
on Uncle Charlie's Progress
January 22, 2008
Greetings to all my friends, fans and prayer warriors!
It's good to be alive! I honestly can't believe I am here typing
this update on my own, considering what happened exactly 2 months
ago! The fact that I am breathing is a miracle, let alone sitting
up and typing! (Although be it mostly left handed and not very
fast! Haha!)
As most of you know, I was hit head on by another vehicle on
a highway in Oklahoma in route to our next concert at Mt. Lebanon
Camp in Texas. Although I never saw what happened (thank God!),
the police report stated that both vehicles were going 65 mph,
and that for some unknown reason the other vehicle ended up
in my lane and hit me head on as I was coming over a hill. There
were no brake marks or skid marks indicating a slow down, so
the impact was at 100% speed. The two people in the other vehicle
lost their lives immediately. I am still amazed that the good
Lord allowed me to survive that kind of an impact. The Highway
Patrolman working the accident told us recently that in cases
he has seen, that no one has survived head on collisions at
35mph!
.
Frankly, from a logical perspective, I should not have survived.
But it's a good thing that God is not in to logic! In His infinite
wisdom and overall providence, He knew it wasn't my time and
that He has much more in store for Uncle Charlie! So first of
all, I am grateful that my life was spared. Secondly, I am anxious
to discover His divine purpose in all of this and to start walking
in His perfect plan He has ordained for me! I want the second
half of my life to be even more significant than the first half!
My
Present Condition
Here's where I am physically right now. I took myself off of
prescription pain medication about three weeks ago because the
effects were, let's just say, "messing with my mind and
body"! Those of you who tried to talk to me during that
first month or so after the accident know exactly what I'm saying!
So now I am in a transitional state with the meds/pain issue……the
up side is that my sanity has somewhat returned (some would
question I ever had any to start with! Ha!) and I can actually
carry on a decent conversation and concentrate a little longer.
The down side is that now I realize just how painful this ordeal
really is. I feel pain in places I didn't know existed! Haha!
But Excedrin has become one of my best friends every 6 hours
and for the most part it seems to temper the degree of pain,
as long as I don't skip any doses!
So all in all, it's not unbearable
and I'm just taking one day at a time, dealing with the physical
issues that arise as best I can when they come. I am still nursing
14 broken ribs, a broken sternum, a broken right leg and a broken
right wrist, along with a lot of messed up stuff inside. But
even with all that being said, it's pretty incredible that my
body has come this far in such a short time! God is good!
My wife Tammy has been a wonderful help to me as she tends to
my every need while trying to balance work, home duties and
all the insurance issues, etc. that arise from the accident.
She has been my steady rock through this process and I am very
glad God provided a way for me to be with her at home here in
Tampa after a long stay in Oklahoma.
Therapy
in the Days Ahead
I am scheduled for an Orthro Doctor's appointment on Jan 22.
From there they will decide when to remove my casts from my
right arm and leg. They will also have to surgically remove
the pins that have been stabilizing my right wrist. From that
point I will go to therapy in order for my right arm/wrist to
function properly. The short of it is that my wrist got really
messed up and it affects my hand and fingers. It could take
weeks, even months of therapy to remedy the issues. (I am praying
for just weeks!) The word is that although I may never be back
at 100% that I will have eventually healed enough that there
should be no reason that I can't be back out there performing
and ministering to kids and families again! Can't wait for that
to happen!
Future Ministry and Touring Plans
Yes, I am excited about touring again in the future! God has
provided me with two new wonderful 20 year old girls from Texas
who are committed to taking our performances to the next level!
I am very excited about these girls and what they have to offer!
There is also the possibility of adding a third girl the same
age from Indiana. All three girls have a tremendous heart for
children, desire to be in full time ministry, and are talented
in so many areas that I am not.
They can add so much on and off the stage!
So right now we want everybody
to know that we are re-opening our calendars for our "Life
is Good" tour stops to any church who wants us from the
end of March until early June. Easter weekend is our first scheduled
weekend back on the road. We also have 1-2 weeks open in the
summer for kids camps or other venues. We are also available
to come and train your volunteers how to lead kids worship –
maybe even combine that effort with a family praise rally so
they can see how it's done!
We have some openings for events in September and October, and
then we would like to work our way in to full time community
family concert venues beginning in November 2008.
Should any of you be interested in any of the above ministry
venues, contact our tour coordinator, Sharon Cox, at For His
Kidz at 1-866-774-7469 or click
here to e-mail her.
In the mean time, yes, we are still planning on continuing our
Made 2 Praise worship tools! Volume 10 is targeted to be out
in late February, and Volume 11 is due before summer. These
worship tools will continue to be a vital part of our ministry.
So even though things aren't moving very fast right now, the
wheels are turning and it won't be long till we are back in
the swing of things!
Thank You!
I want to take a moment to personally thank all of you who have
taken the time to pray for me and my family, and have given
the effort to show your support by writing me, emailing me,
calling me, and sending love offerings to help us through this
time of crisis and uncertainty. We have had an absolutely incredible
outpouring of love and concern, and we are humbled and grateful
for every gesture of love and support.
It's absolutely mind boggling to stop and realize how many people
have touched us in one way of the other by their show of support!
I am blown away at the mere number of letters, cards, emails
and calls we have gotten over the past few months. You should
see the HUGE container of cards and letters I have saved from
friends, from children's ministers all over the country and
overseas, (many of whom never have met me but use my tools in
their children's ministries!) and from countless children belonging
to various children's church groups across the country! I have
read and am still reading each and every piece of mail, and
I've got to tell you it has really been a great source of encouragement
to me!
So many of you have wished me well and have taken the time to
express just how much our ministry, our music and our tools
have meant to you. It helps me realize what an impact God has
allowed this ministry to have in so many people's lives! What
a humbling thought, and what motivation to continue pressing
on!
Thank you for encouraging me.
Due to my circumstances it has been virtually impossible for
me to respond to so many people, but Tammy and I do want all
of you to know how appreciative we are for everything you have
done! I thank God daily for surrounding me with such genuine
Christian love!
I look forward to the day that my new Praise Team and I can
once again serve our Lord and serve you by helping you and your
leaders and/or by ministering to your kids and families! Let
us know how we can help!
God Bless, and we'll Cya
here, there, or in the air!
Uncle Charlie
Update
on Uncle Charlie's Condition
December 14, 2007
To all of Uncle Charlie's friends,
fans and prayer warriors across the country & beyond:
It has been exactly one month since the day when Uncle Charlie
nearly lost his life in a high speed head on collision in southern
Oklahoma. We have been told time and time again what a miracle
it is that Uncle Charlie was able to survive. The more we learn
of the details of the accident, the more we all realize how blessed
and fortunate we are to still have him around! Since that day,
many more miracles have taken place, for which we give God the
praise and glory!
Charlie was actually able to fly home to Tampa on the 7th of December!
He has previously been told that he would not be able to do this
for at least 8 weeks, but when his doctors saw him on his follow-up
visit and saw the improvements he was making, they granted him
permission to go back to Florida just in time for him to see his
youngest son, Matt, graduate from Bible College! What a surprise
it was for Matt as he had no idea Dad was coming home!
The trip took quite a bit out of Uncle Charlie, but we all know
that home is where he belongs and it will be better for him in
the long run.
Doctors say that he will be in his leg and arm casts for 6 weeks,
after which he must get three 2-inch pins removed from his right
wrist, which are currently helping hold that portion of his arm
together. Then he will need to undergo rehab in order to restore
the use of his right hand. That could take weeks or months, we
don't know yet. He has had two surgeries on that wrist already,
and the good news is that the nerves were not severed. Even though
his right arm will never be at 100%, the doctors are confident
that he will eventually heal enough to live a normal lifestyle
and even perform and play the guitar again!
Uncle Charlie is currently transitioning off his pain medication.
Of course he is enduring a much larger degree of pain, but he
is tough and just takes each day one at a time. The main thing
is that his attitude remains positive and his spirits are high!
The biggest obstacle that Uncle Charlie will face in the weeks
and months ahead is his patience! He's already talking about continuing
to record Made 2 Praise, going back on tour with his new team,
ministering to children, etc. Waiting on God's timing as his body
heals will be hard for him, as he is used to being quite active.
March is the target date we all have for him to begin traveling
again.
Uncle Charlie wanted to make sure that each of you knows how much
he appreciated every one of your e-mails, letters, cards, calls
and visits while he was in Oklahoma. He read each and every one
of them and they were a great source of inspiration to him. It
was encouraging for all of us to know that he had so many friends
and that his ministry has impacted so many people. Charlie has
been overwhelmed with gratitude. We hope you understand it's virtually
impossible for him at this time to answer and reply to these expressions
of support, but hopefully through this update you will know how
much you mean to him! He wants you to know that he may be down,
but he's not out! He feels even more convinced now that God has
big plans for his "second half"!
Many of you have been asking through your messages if there is
anything you can do to help Uncle Charlie. We at Upward Bound
Ministries are very grateful for your concern and appreciate your
outpouring of love and care.
Here are a few things you can do should you feel led:
1. Continue to pray for Uncle Charlie. He would be the first to
tell you this is the most important thing you can do for him.
You can pray specifically for these things:
a. His complete recovery in God's time.
b. That his pain level without meds will begin to decrease more
and more.
c. That he will once again be able to do what he loves best
– minister to children through music, teach others to
use his tools, and mentor others for ministry.
d. That Charlie will find and pursue God's perfect plan for
his future.
e. That God will provide all financial needs for family, ministry,
medical expenses, and other expenses that will occur between
now and March in the midst of losing his income that would normally
come through touring.
f. For his wife Tammy as she tries to balance working full time
with giving Charlie the proper care he needs. Also for her endurance
as the process of taking care of Charlie, taking care of insurance
and financial issues, etc. can be very tiresome physically and
emotionally.
g. That God would supply wisdom and grace to Uncle Charlie and
Tammy as they have lots of decisions to make in the days ahead.
2. Uncle Charlie loves
to hear from you, so feel free to drop him an email or note
every once in a while. This really lifts his spirits! Click
Here to e-mail him, or use this address to send him a letter:
Uncle Charlie, PO Box 627, Lutz, FL 33548.
3. Some of you have even asked how you or your church could
help financially in the days ahead. We have been seeking council
in that area and what has been advised to us is that should
anyone or any church feel led to help in that manner, the best
thing to do is simply make any checks payable to Charlie Bancroft
or to Tammy Bancroft, rather than to the ministry. These can
be categorized as love offerings and would not count as taxable
income to Uncle Charlie. This also enables Charlie or Tammy
to apply the funds exactly where they are needed most, even
if not related to the nuts and bolts of the ministry itself.
Already we have received various gifts from concerned people
and churches, and Uncle Charlie and Tammy want everyone involved
to feel their heartfelt thanks. This is a humbling feeling for
them, as they are used to being on the "giving" end
of things. But they also realize that God uses His people to
provide needs and understand that He is the ultimate provider
for anything lacking in our lives.
Thank you again for your concern about Uncle Charlie's welfare.
He wants all of you to know his chin is up and he looks forward
to being back in the saddle this spring with his new team. We'll
continue to keep you posted as he goes through the healing and
rehab process.
God Bless each of you, and as Uncle Charlie would say,
Cya here, there, or in the air!
UBM Staff
Update on Uncle Charlie's Condition
November 26, 2007
Hello friends, fans, and loyal
customers. As many of you heard through other sources, it is
true that Uncle Charlie was involved in a very serious car accident
in Oklahoma on Thursday, Nov 15th, just a day before what was
suppose to be his final concert with Rachel.
We wanted to give you an update on Uncle Charlie's accident
and condition because we have had an extraordinary amount of
concerned fans and friends asking what happened and if he is
OK.
Uncle Charlie had just finished his annual board meeting and
was on his way to see a few friends before heading to Camp Lebanon
to prepare for the concert. He was on a highway within 3 miles
of his destination going the speed limit at 65 mph. He came
over a hill where apparently another driver was passing another
vehicle and had accidentally ended up right in Charlie's lane.
The result was a terrible high speed head on collision where
the other driver and passenger unfortunately immediately lost
their lives on the scene.
Uncle Charlie , by God's grace, somehow managed to survive the
accident. He was driving alone at the time. All involved in
the rescue and recovery agree it was a true miracle that Charlie
survived. It took rescue workers over an hour to release Charlie
from the vehicle. They said if Uncle Charlie was driving anything
less than an SUV at the time, or had he not worn his seatbelts;
or because of the nature of how his body was entrapped in the
wreckage, if he had been any bigger or taller in stature, he
would not have survived. God was truly protecting Uncle Charlie!
Uncle Charlie 's current condition has improved since that day
but he is just in the beginning stages of a long, hard process
ahead. . He ended up with 14 broken ribs, a broken sternum,
multiple compound fractures on his right arm and wrist, a broken
ankle, lacerated liver and kidneys, and lots of internal damage
to his intestines, etc.
But even with all that, we believe Uncle Charlie has survived
the critical days and that better days are ahead for him. This
is obviously going to be a slow recovery and will no doubt set
back his recording and touring schedule – but the main thing
is that Charlie has kept a strong faith and positive attitude
and will definitely overcome this with God's help.
He is currently being released from the OU Medical Center in
Oklahoma City and will begin his recovery with family members
in OK until he gets medical permission to go back to FL to finish
his recovery. Even though Charlie's spirits are high and his
faith is strong, he is in an extreme amount of pain and is very
weak physically. Talking and breathing are very difficult for
him right now, but will get better with time.
More than anything, Uncle Charlie would appreciate your prayers
on his behalf, and for his wife Tammy back in FL. She flies
back and forth to see Charlie as her work schedule allows, but
obviously prays Charlie can come home sooner than later.
If any of you wish to drop Charlie a note or an email, we are
sure that would make his day. We have already received an extraordinary
outpouring of notes, emails and letters from concerned friends,
and Charlie takes the time to read every one of them. Click
here to send him
an e-mail. Notes can be sent to
Charlie Bancroft
Upward Bound Ministries
4729 S.E. Sunnymeade Dr .
Lawton , OK 73501
Thank all of you for your love and support of Uncle Charlie
and his ministry to kids and big kids at heart! We will keep
you posted as to Charlie's progress.
God Bless you all!
Upward Bound Ministries Staff
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